aspects of search

Betty Jean Lifton, in her book “Lost & Found,” describes these as the stages of “Search” that adoptees experience. I’m placing this here for ease of reference. 1. Crossing the Threshold 2. Obsession 3. Limbo 4. Adult Fantasies 5. Piercing the Veil

The Problem with Mirrors

We are adrift within the reflections of our best selves. When I discovered the internet, it was young. I was young. The world I inhabited felt larger as I processed the experience of dialing a long-distance number and listening to the modem handshake with the bbs on the other end of the line. There wereContinue reading “The Problem with Mirrors”